FAQ's about Spiritual Motherhood for Priests
Q: What is spiritual motherhood for priests?
A: Spiritual maternity is a hidden vocation within a vocation for women in every state of life – single, married, lay or consecrated religious – who recognize a call to offer prayer and sacrifices to strengthen and protect priests so they may grow in holiness. Enlivened and guided by the Holy Spirit, we strive to imitate the virtues of the Blessed Virgin Mary and her special maternity for each priest.
Q: Are there specific commitments to join this apostolate in support of priests?
A: There are no required dues, meetings or specific prayers. To honor each woman’s primary vocation in life and her unique gifts, we provide only guidelines for growing in devotion to God, in imitation of Mary and her virtues, to better intercede as a spiritual mother of a priest and for all priests. (Read more details here.)
Q: What does this apostolate do?
A: This apostolate spiritually unites women in the Archdiocese of St. Louis who have a maternal heart for priests, to offer prayer and to be formed as spiritual mothers who are Eucharistic, Marian, sacramental, virtuous and self-sacrificing - all the things we expect of our priests. We also inform priests of our efforts to support them and to invite women who have a heart for this prayer ministry.
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MORE ABOUT SPIRITUAL MOTHERHOOD
(an excerpt from an article by Mary Kaufmann)
...the vocation of spiritual motherhood for priests - spiritually mature women willing to offer their lives and pray at the Cross for priests and the priesthood
This is not a call to “maternalism” towards priests, to show up at the rectory with food, offer advice or to hover around priests. It’s not necessarily a call to close friendship with the priest, but more a connection experienced on the supernatural level, for their mutual growth in holiness. Spiritual motherhood demands and develops the spiritual and interpersonal maturity of the woman involved by presenting her with a regular opportunity to offer her spiritual resources for the benefit of priests with detachment or without meeting her own personal needs in doing so.
Spiritual mothers are virtuous women, women centered in God, women tempered by suffering, sometimes even suffering from interaction with priests, but women able to offer “a widow’s mite” in a way that makes a powerful spiritual difference for the Church.
Some spiritual mothers offer their joys and sorrows for all priests and the priesthood in general; while others feel called to pray and sacrifice for one specific priest or seminarian.
Some spiritual moms know not even the name of the priest that they pray for, while others live a holy, spiritual friendship with the priest. While the interpersonal dynamic of spiritual motherhood may vary, certain fundamental characteristics remain: to spiritually accompany the priest by offering their lives as living sacrifice for them.
Some dioceses that have implemented programs of spiritual motherhood of priests, have organized them as double- blind arrangements, where the spiritual mother and the priest himself do not know each other’s names. The women know only that they are praying for the priest assigned to them, and the priest, that they have a generous personal intercessor.
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Bishop William Emanuel Kettler recounts a story of how his own vocation came into being through the unremitting intercession of a humble religious sister who had, since childhood, offered prayers and hardships for some soul unknown to her:
“For things that cost me greatly, I grew accustomed to facing them with joy and enthusiasm out of love for God, and then I offer them up for one soul on earth. To whom God chooses to be gracious as a result, I have left completely up to him and I do not want to know. I also offer up my time of Eucharistic adoration every evening from 8 to 9 for this intention.”
“Where did you get the idea to offer up all your merits for someone totally unknown to you?”
“I learned it while I was still out in the world,” she replied. “At school our teacher, the parish priest, taught us how we can pray and offer our merits for our relatives. Besides that, he said that we should pray much for those who are in danger of being lost. Since only God knows who really needs prayer, it is best to put your merits at the disposition of the Sacred Heart of Jesus trusting in his wisdom and omnipotence. That is what I have done,” she concluded, “and I always believed that God would find the right soul.”
“And have you any idea whether your prayers and sacrifices have been successful?” he asked her further.
“No, Your Excellency.”
“Don’t you want to know?”
“Our dear God knows when something good happens, and that is enough,” was the simple answer.
- from the Vatican document, "Eucharistic Adoration for the Sanctification of Priests and Spiritual Maternity"